Nera Benandanti
Originally from Tinton Falls, New Jersey and now alive and kicking it in Salem, Massachusetts with my Homies. I dig monsters, anime, food, folks, and fun.
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I love to play with my PlayStation video games, nice when I get to stay home for a day off and play all day and night.
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- Not everyone has the same potential because not everyone has the same destiny.
- I can't do this anymore!!!!!!! I live in a house with six other women and I just had to go outside and I’m laying outside crying because it’s not quiet enough for me. There’s the tv on in our room AND she’s watching videos on her phone AND I can hear the other persons phone call through the wall. I just cant. How do you cope with extreme auditory sensitivity because I’m losing my mind trying not to throw a hissy fit. I’m also upset because it’s 110 degrees here and I’m too hot.
- I will not let an animal starve but when you only have 2 cats (that just showed up) and a 3rd one that shows up from time to time but the other 2 will not let it on the porch. So I put him food out elsewhere,and you use 22 lbs of cat food a week something isn't adding up. If I had to guess I have a family of fat raccoons or opossums close by.
- Last night i kept thinking, wow i am really happy to be here on earth. but then I began weeping because i realized I need to stop gettng high and drinking. I realized that one day i want to be a mother, a vessel for to bring new life into this world some day, but I have been treating my body very poorly. i realize that i need to free myself NOW. not later and allow myself to live FULLY instead of being under the influence all the time. I am beginning a new journey of sobriety.
- I was thinking today how the medical system failed me while growing up. I was born in 1978 with Asperger's Syndrome. I was not diagnosed until 2016. Even though there were doctors that knew about Asperger's and my parents took me to see a specialist, they never diagnosed me. Instead, my parents thought I just misbehaved on purpose. So instead of being treated for autism, I was abused and institutionalized. When I was twenty-four, I had a bad meltdown. Instead of the medical profession treating me for autism, I was thrown into a maximum security hospital. Throughout my life, I saw psychiatrists and none of them diagnosed me with autism. Everything from schizophrenia to bipolar, but never did they even mention the possibility of autism. If one of these doctors had done their job, I believe my life would have been much better. So even now, I don't trust doctors.
Leave a commentVery painful to read. I'm so sorry for your life's struggle. My brother suffered tremendously too. Same for him, everything but autism! I made it my mission to get him diagnosed as an adult, as I could see some similarities with our uncle, who is also on the spectrum. You are NOT alone. The struggle is real.
Leave a commentI am involved in support groups for special needs. One thing I remind them all the time is that we only know what we know now. Neuroscience is still in it's infancy. If they argue I remind them I listened to professionals years ago compared to now.
Leave a commentI understand why you feel that way. Unfortunately diagnosis and support was not available for older generations on anything approaching a national scale- misdiagnosis was common, especially in females. I'm so sorry you went through all that and the losses you feel you've had, that's something to grieve about, then somehow heal as best as possible and then get the best life out of what is left!
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Very painful to read. I'm so sorry for your life's struggle. My brother suffered tremendously too. Same for him, everything but autism! I made it my mission to get him diagnosed as an adult, as I could see some similarities with our uncle, who is also on the spectrum. You are NOT alone. The struggle is real.
I am involved in support groups for special needs. One thing I remind them all the time is that we only know what we know now. Neuroscience is still in it's infancy. If they argue I remind them I listened to professionals years ago compared to now.
I understand why you feel that way. Unfortunately diagnosis and support was not available for older generations on anything approaching a national scale- misdiagnosis was common, especially in females. I'm so sorry you went through all that and the losses you feel you've had, that's something to grieve about, then somehow heal as best as possible and then get the best life out of what is left!